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Poetry; AFRICAN WOMAN

Hey sister, rocking that fro with a smile Nubian diva full figure, a booty worth your while Brown chocolate, no I'm dark coffee I ain't gonna lie Not accepting your beauty cuz the truth is expensive to buy Time has changed we all just wanna be light-skinned so not cool But in the eyes of the outsider we are still black like coal With her shuku and Ankara she shrugs as she walks by in her own skin I see the boli seller wiping her sweat with her wrapper as proud as she can be At that owambe, the sultry Yoruba woman on her gele dancing with dele Igbo kwenu it's August meeting, full figured Igbo mothers rocking their jorge Aii sallah ya zo, the forever young Hausa ladies making waina da masa Take a look at those kids playing suwe, being happy proud in their own way She is light-skinned but she knows she's a black woman Oreos skinned woman why change is it because of that man? Hey sister don't give into the pressure your beauty can'

10 WAYS TO KNOW HE’S CHEATING

There’s no doubt that cheating on the rise, take it from the show Cheaters, But just as there are that many more ways to communicate and connect with people (think Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, texting, and the countless dating sites and apps) there are also that many more ways to get caught. An intercepted text has become the modern day version of lipstick on the collar. Whether people are cheating more, being more careless, or spouses are better at catching their cheating partner, I don’t know. The bottom line: the numbers are staggering and troubling. Don’t get me wrong both gender cheat but for now we are focused on the male gender, it’s all about the pattern. Here are some signs; 1)     If you calmly and sincerely approach your partner about the thought that something seems off or makes you uncomfortable, and he or she lashes out and make you feel insecure or insane, it's because s/he is deflecting:   A caring relationship involves talking things out and caring

Where to eat; Nkoyo

I am sure a certified foodie, i don't joke with my taste buds.  I had lunch here and it was divine not price friendly but lovely service and good ambiance. Ever in Abuja, Nigeria be sure to visit Nkoyo.